I can see that a mother need to be attach to her kids, withouts such attachment, she won’t feel any emotional urge to provide for her kids.

A motherly instinct, you say, it is powerful enough to transform, meek and weak woman, into a tigress. The pain for seeing their kids suffer, will hurt ten times more than the kid who suffer.

Pain and suffering, is a strong power. However, this power need wisdom. An understanding how things work and how things hould be done. Without wisdom, the power will run uncheck and destructive. With wisdom, the pain and suffering will transform itself into love and commpasionate actions.